Should i try to talk to him?

OK,come up along side him as this is a non threatening approach with us guys.Talk to him softly and in an understanding tone,touching him softly at times in a reassuring way and don't get upset in your voice or your actions no matter how he reacts.Meaning always tactfully be in control without him noticing and always be prepared to walk away too.Say to him as you are touching him''Come on,Just tell me the true.But be fore you do you may have to bare your soul to him.Don't give him hints either as we don't get hints very well and look at this as game playing.Good Luck.